Showing posts with label invisible disabilities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label invisible disabilities. Show all posts

Monday, May 18, 2015

He's Trained

Someone asked me today if Isaac was in training.  I get asked that all the time.  I mean, almost every time I go someplace new with him, someone asks.

I'm not entirely sure why that bugs me so much but it does.  I think it feels kind of insulting to me.  I know people don't mean it that way.  I know why they ask.  I know why, because for a while, every time someone asked me that, I asked them why they were asking.  Mostly it was because I don't look blind.  Therefore they assume I must be training him for someone that is blind.

So it seems like it shouldn't feel insulting to me, but it kind of does.  Isaac is highly trained.  He's had a ton of training.  He was trained for about 18  months before I even got him, but I do ongoing training with him all the time, too.  He's had tons of training.  So I think it feels like they are minimizing that or downplaying it or something, even though I realize that's not very logical because they have no way of knowing what kind of training he's had.

He behaves like he's well-trained, though.  Some people notice that.  Sometimes people comment on how well-behaved he is.  Well, dogs just don't naturally behave like that.  They behave like that when they've had a lot of training.

I try to understand why people ask if he's in training, and I do understand, but it still bugs me.